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Ages 2-3

Toddlers

Helping IS the point. Output is 10% chore, 90% process.

Realistic chores

  • Put dirty clothes in the hamper (one at a time, with prompting)
  • Put toys in a labeled bin at cleanup time
  • Carry their unbreakable plate to the counter after meals
  • Wipe up a small spill with a cloth
  • Help feed pets (scoop a pre-measured cup into the bowl)
  • Put books on a low shelf
  • Start dressing themselves (with help)
  • Help unload light groceries from a bag
  • "Dust" baseboards with a sock on their hand
  • Clean up one activity before starting the next

Notes for parents

  • No payment, no chart yet — invitations, not requests.
  • Effusive praise tends to backfire by age 6. Warm acknowledgment works.
  • Refusal isn't defiance — it's usually hunger, tiredness, or testing the rule.
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Ages 4-5

Preschool

"I can do it myself!" — meet that drive with simple repeatable tasks.

Realistic chores

  • Make their bed (covers pulled up, pillows roughly in place)
  • Get dressed independently
  • Brush teeth (parent still does the real follow-up brush)
  • Set the table — napkins, silverware, plates (no glasses yet)
  • Clear their own plate after meals
  • Put away laundry once you've folded it
  • Put dirty clothes in the hamper without prompting
  • Feed pets a pre-measured scoop
  • Water indoor plants
  • Match socks from clean laundry
  • Make a simple snack (cereal, yogurt, peel a banana)
  • Empty small trash cans into the kitchen bin
  • Wipe the bathroom sink with water + cloth only (no chemical cleaners)

Notes for parents

  • 2-3 daily chores at predictable times. No 10-item chart yet.
  • Sticker charts can work briefly — expect the honeymoon to fade by week 3.
  • AAPD: kids still need an adult follow-up brush until they can tie shoes or write cursive (~age 7).
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Ages 6-8

Early Elementary

Industry stage — kids in this window WANT to be seen as competent.

Realistic chores

  • Make their bed to a real standard
  • Pack their own school lunch (with a checklist)
  • Unload non-sharp items from the dishwasher
  • Load the dishwasher at 7+ with an adult placing knives point-down
  • Make own breakfast on weekends (cereal, toast, microwave oatmeal)
  • Take out small bathroom + bedroom trash bins
  • Sweep with a kid-sized broom
  • Vacuum a single room (stick vacuum is easier than upright)
  • Wipe kitchen counters
  • Help unload non-fragile groceries
  • Sort and fold simple flat items (washcloths, dish towels, socks)
  • Feed and water pets independently (with reminders for timing)
  • Walk the dog on a short supervised route (older end)
  • Tidy and dust their own bedroom
  • Bring in the mail
  • Set and clear the full table including glasses

Notes for parents

  • 4-6 daily chores + 1-2 weekly on a visible chart.
  • Dishwasher pods stay locked away — top elementary-age detergent injury source.
  • Start the "chores you do because you live here" vs "money is a separate skill" conversation here.
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Ages 9-11

Tweens

Capable of running most of a household for short stretches. Move from chart to domain ownership.

Realistic chores

  • Run their own laundry start to finish (sort, wash, dry, fold, put away)
  • Cook simple meals with an adult in the kitchen (eggs, grilled cheese, pasta)
  • Plan and help shop for one family dinner per week
  • Clean a bathroom using kid-safe products (vinegar, soap, water — NOT bleach)
  • Rake leaves, weed, bag yard clippings, sweep walkways
  • Take full responsibility for a pet (feeding, water, walking, cleanup)
  • Vacuum the whole house
  • Change own bed sheets weekly
  • Keep a younger sibling company in the same room while a parent is one room away (NOT babysitting)
  • Manage their own homework and assignments (parent checks; kid executes)
  • Wash dishes by hand
  • Take recycling/trash to the curb
  • Iron simple items with adult supervision
  • Clean up after a creative project; keep their own desk tidy

Notes for parents

  • NO power mowers — CPSC + AAP set the floor at 12 for any walk-behind mower, 16 for riding.
  • Babysitting per AAP starts at 12. Don't skip ahead here.
  • Ownership ("you are responsible for the dog") lands better than 8 micro-tasks at this age.
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Ages 12-14

Early Teens

Capability is here; executive function is the bottleneck. Move from chart to chore agreement.

Realistic chores

  • Run washer + dryer start to finish independently (the AAP's 12-yr-old benchmark)
  • Operate a walk-behind power mower (push or self-propelled). Riding mowers still wait until 16.
  • Plan and prepare a full family dinner with shopping
  • Babysit younger siblings — start with parents in the building
  • Manage a small budget (phone share, clothes budget)
  • Yard work + snow shoveling (take breaks; warm up)
  • Wash the car
  • Check tire pressure + oil dipstick. Engine off, cold, parking brake on.
  • Deep-clean their own room (real cleaning, not tidying)
  • Pet care fully independently — including making the vet appointment
  • Run errands alone within walking/biking range
  • Manage their own school commitments + teacher communications

Notes for parents

  • Sit down annually and write a chore agreement together. Point at the agreement, not the kid.
  • EF develops well into the 20s. Standing expectations + consistent consequences = follow-through.
  • Allowance becomes a meaningful budgeting teaching tool at this age.
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Ages 15-17

High School

Goal is running their own life — chores stop being household management, start being adult prep.

Realistic chores

  • All laundry, room, school commitments, social schedule — independently
  • Make + keep own appointments (doctor, dentist, haircut, DMV)
  • Refill own prescriptions; know own allergies + medical history
  • Cook for family ≥1×/week with planning + shopping
  • Manage a job + the logistics (taxes, schedule, transport)
  • Own banking: checking, debit card, basic budgeting
  • Help younger siblings with homework + transportation
  • Take ownership of a household system (meal planning, family calendar, errand-running)
  • Drive self + sometimes siblings (check graduated-license passenger rules)
  • Manage college / post-grad prep (applications, FAFSA, deadlines)
  • Pre-register to vote at 16-17 where state allows

Notes for parents

  • Mott Children's Hospital: half of parents say their 18-year-old still can't make a doctor's appointment. Start at 15.
  • Pick a household domain they OWN. Real responsibility, not a list of asks.
  • Practice for adult roommate dynamics. You're 2-4 years from this kid living somewhere else.
tasktroll.org · Chore Chart Bundle Ages 15-17